Monday, November 12, 2007

consuming stake conference and the fabulous dessert which followed

The Brooklyn, New York Stake (which, so far as I'm aware includes all of Brooklyn and some of Staten Island) had their semi-annual conference this weekend. So on Saturday night for the adult session, and Sunday morning for the general session, we bundled up and trekked through the subway system heading north to Park Slope to the stake center. After attending stake conferences twice a year for pretty much my entire life, I thought I was an old pro, but Brooklyn yet again made things new and interesting for me.

Attending conference here confirmed to me once more just how culturally diverse Brooklyn is. At the adult session just about everyone, unless they were bilingual in English and Spanish, had to use headphones because, while most of the session was in English, there was at least one talk in Spanish. It was quite the experience listening to it. Through my headset I could hear an English translation of the Spanish talk I was simultaneously listening to being given at the pulpit. And then, over my shoulder, I could here the same talk being translated into Chinese. The general session on Sunday was all in English, but not all of the speakers natively knew English. The speaker who represented our ward is from the Ukraine. His story of traveling half-way across the world AND learning English in order to attend the temple for the first time with his family was well worth the sometimes hard to decipher accent. Also, the choir sang each of their musical numbers in three languages: Chinese, Spanish, and English. It definitely takes more effort here to make sure that everyone can understand the messages being shared, but I have never been in a stake that has felt so overwhelmingly unified.

Speaking of unified, I have to say that there's nothing quite like watching the members here gather. It's both incredibly spiritual and fantastically spy-movie-like watching them converge from out of the subway in droves.

A few other thoughts I had from the conference:
  • Our stake presidency is very young. That makes Blake and I both a little nervous and very grateful for our callings as nursery leaders.
  • The president of the New York New York South mission spoke, which was probably appropriate, seeing as I've never seen so many field missionaries at one time and in one place. I mean, I know Brooklyn is home to millions of people, but wow; I hadn't ever considered those millions translating to a need for so many missionaries.
  • One of the counselors in the new Manhattan temple presidency spoke and now I'm really itching to arrange for a babysitter and just go do a session already.
  • The stake president saw to it that the adult session was interactive. He led a fascinating discussion on the doctrine outlined in the For Strength of Youth pamphlet by using the primary song "Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes" (and yes, he made us all stand up and sing it, too).
  • I think I will forever be in awe of the amazingly firm testimonies of the people here.
The conference was, I think, wrapped up quite nicely by something I'm going to chalk up to a faith promoting subway experience on the ride home. In the middle of our transfer from the F train to the R, we were stopped by a gentleman needing directions. We helped him to the best of our ability (our little group of Blake and I, along with another young couple, were trying to make sure we were going in the right direction as well), and in doing so missed our train by a fraction of a second. I told Blake that I completely expected another train to arrive shortly since the only reason we missed this one was because we were being kind and serviceable. Before he could completely finish teasing me for thinking this, sure enough, there arrived another train, which just goes to show that Heavenly Father does watch out for those who help His children.

But wait! There's more!

Last night I got to leave Blake at home with Garrett while I went up to Woodside, Queens to listen to Sister Julie B. Beck speak at a fireside. What a fantastic experience -- and not just because I was literally sitting front and center. It was definitely an hour well-spent listening to her share stories from her own experiences about how incredible it is that each and every one of us was chosen before we were born to come to earth to be a part of a family, and how powerful we all can be if we see to it that the spirit resides in our own lives and in our homes with our families. She also convinced me that I can successfully teach Garrett to read the Book of Mormon cover to cover by himself before he is baptized. [UPDATE: If you're curious about this reading the Book of Mormon thing, I've elaborated in the comments section of this post.]

A few other thoughts from the evening:
  • I was given a ride to the fireside by my friend, Martha. I highly recommend that all of you at some point in your lives drive north from Brooklyn on the Brooklyn-Queens Expressway at night. The view of an all-lit-up Manhattan behind the Brooklyn Bridge is totally worth it.
  • The Woodside Stake Center was converted from an old watchmakers factory, and the cultural hall, where we all convened, was at one time an Olympic-sized swimming pool. Martha, who grew up in Queens and knows this building well, gave me the behind-the-scenes tour. It's a maze of a building, but I think that it's quite likely that in no other stake center will you get to walk along an incline in the basement and be told that you're walking from the deep end to the shallow end of what used to be that pool.
  • I am convinced that the girl who sang the opening musical number is a Broadway actress because not only did her porcelain doll-like figure dressed in a snazzy yet not too over the top New York ensemble look the part, but she sang the part as well.
  • This was, I think, the first time I left Blake alone with Garrett for an extended amount of time (if you can call 4 hours truly extended). He did a fabulous job, I must say.
It was a delicious weekend, my friends, and I think it's safe to say that I am now feeling quite stuffed.

11 comments:

heath said...

Wow Linds, that sounds like an amazing experience! It reminds me a little bit of the time I attended stake conference in Vienna. Probably not quite as many people rode the subway as in New York (there probably were just fewer people in general), but I remember loving seeing members of the church in droves for the first time. And yes, there were a whole lot of people that had to use headphones--Vienna is a European melting pot after-all.

Anonymous said...

Sounds like a winner of a weekend. I love that satiated feeling I get, like I've been drinking from a fire hydrant. You'll have to have an elaborative post on the Garrett reading the Book of Mormon before he's 8 topic. That'd be interesting.

Like Heath, I was also reminded of my Stake Conference experiences in Vienna. Held in the UN complex, no less. It was always fun to hear the different languages (English, Spanish, Russian, German, Chinese, African pigeon) and the droves of people at the train stop. Good times. Melting pots are fun.

Jenny P. said...

I am so happy that you had such a wonderful experience. It sounded delightful. Our stake conference is next weekend. But I don't think it is going to be as exciting as yours was!

And....I tagged you on my blog. My request for you to be random.

Unknown said...

how exciting! super jealous that you heard Julie Beck. I don't care what everyone is saying about her conference talk-it was amazing!

I'm most impressed that you left Garrett for 4 hours. Glad it was a good experience so hopefully you can go to the temple! Next time I am there I am determined to see it. You're changing my mind more and more about living there. way to go! :)

Lindsay said...

Amy - I agree: Sister Beck's conference talk was pretty fabulous. Also, if I can live in NYC, ANYONE can live in NYC. Seriously. I think I'm one of the last people on earth with the personality for big city life - for NYC life. And yet...here I am. Go figure.

goddessdivine said...

What a cultural experience. We have Spanish translators at ours because we have one Spanish branch. But 3 languages.....interesting. I love when I get to hear talks in Spanish. It's a nice trip down memory lane for me.

Amy said...

I have never in my life wanted to live in NYC more than I want to right now! you are having so many wonderful experiences... and you write about them so well. I feel like I am right there with you ;)

Kellee said...

I adore your blog! I've been reading it since phase 1 and posted a comment once before. Anyway, I was just wondering if it's ok if I add you to the "who I'm reading" section of my blog, and to tell you how cute Garrett is!

Lindsay said...

Kellee - Of course you can link me! Thanks for reading (and thanks, too for speaking up...I love to see who's reading me!) and I hope to see you back here soon!

Jenny said...

Stake Conference sounded fabulous. Julie Beck spoke in one of my classes and she was pretty incredible. Would love to hear more about the Book of Mormon thing.

I think it's awesome you left the babe for an extended period.I think 4 hours counts as extended.

Lindsay said...

Okay, a few of you have asked about the Book of Mormon thing. It's really not too complicated (though I suppose it might sound like it is). Basically, Sister Beck just told a story about her granddaughter who was very excited to turn 8 and be baptized. When she was almost 7, she noticed Sister Beck's colorfully marked and tabbed scriptures, and wanted some just like that. Sister Beck asked her if she thought she could read the B of M cover to cover all by herself before she was baptized. Her granddaughter thought she could, so she said that if she'd read it, she'd show her how to mark them so they were colorful and how to write what she thought about them in the margins. They sat down together and started in 1 Nephi. The granddaughter got really excited as they read in the first verse about Nephi having goodly parents. She said, "Well, I have goodly parents, too!" So Sister Beck told her she should mark it because it meant something to her, and then she wrote her thoughts about also having goodly parents in the margins. It took her a year to read the B of M. She did it mostly by herself, but occasionally would call Grandma and they'd read a chapter together over the phone. She said several times that it wasn't easy and that she didn't always understand what she was reading, but she finished just the same. (Her dad even gave her a little "test" on the last chapter in Moroni, which she was relieved to find out was "open book.") Because she finished, Sister Beck bought her a new set of scriptures for her baptism (which I'm sure she's marked up as well). The granddaughter's younger siblings thought this tradition of reading and marking the B of M before they got baptized (and then receiving a new set of scriptures) was pretty cool, so they've been following in their sister's footsteps.

Anyway, I just thought it was a neat little story, and I see no reason why Garrett someday can't do the same, so long as I make sure to teach him along the way how important reading the scriptures is.