Okay, so I'm not really the
It girl, but I've seen several variations of this tag floating around and wanted to play, too. So if you're just joining us, here's what's been going on with me for the last two decades.
20 years ago...I had just successfully wrapped up my kindergarten year, but was sad because my very first BFF,
Sarah, had just moved across the continent to far-away New Jersey. But it wasn't goodbye forever. We shifted our relationship to accommodate the distance: if we couldn't spend afternoons playing at each others homes, we could be pen pals. And so for 20 years we've stayed in touch, by hand-written letters, emails, blogs, and a few visits sprinkled in between.
10 years ago...When I wasn't at
Target stocking the shelves of Blue World at my first non-babysitting job, I was participating in the worst group date ever. Sadly, it was also my first date. I've tried my best over the years to forget the details but for your enjoyment I'll bring a few tidbits back to the surface. Think big blind date (a group of kids from my high school were matched up with a group of kids from a neighboring high school) where the boy I was set up said
not one word the entire evening. I don't even know what his name was. Dinner was concocted by couples sent separately on errands to the grocery store to pick up various top-secret components of the meal which, if I remember correctly, involved jars of pureed baby food. We carpooled in small groups to the mall for the activity, a bizarre game that somehow involved napkins and pimpled employees of Orange Julius, but which [thankfully] never materialized because we spent the next hour and a half wandering around the mall looking for the groups we got separated from on the drive over. Luckily this horrific first date experience didn't hinder my desire and ability to ultimately get married.
5 years ago...After dealing with a collapsed ceiling and a
flooded, smelly apartment,
my roommates, cousin, and I stole away on a road trip to Disneyland. When we ran out of gas in Cedar City, we knew we were in for an adventure. Aside from a few pre-menstrual meltdowns, we had a fabulous time whizzing through fast-pass lines and chasing down Mary Poppins for a photo-op. One highlight of the trip was an afternoon spent in San Diego with our good friend,
Peter, picking lemons off the tree in his yard to make homemade lemonade. Peter also joined us for a day in the Happiest Place on Earth, the highlight of which was undoubtedly our lunch in the Blue Bayou.
3 years ago...Blake and I were newlyweds packing up our first Provo apartment in preparation for our big move to Muncie, Indiana, for two years of grad school.
1 year ago...I had just given birth to Baby Garrett, and when we weren't trying parenthood on for size, we were accepting a job in New York City and gearing up for another big move.
Yesterday...Was spent on Take Two of celebrating Garrett's birthday, with a special focus on not flipping out and screaming inconsolably in front of company when chocolate frosting sticks to fingers and won't come off, dangit, no matter how hard your hand is flicked, spewing pieces of cupcake everywhere. (Yeah, we had some good times Sunday evening.) No, this second celebration, spent only with Mama and Dad, was much calmer. Cupcakes and ice cream were served once more, only this time Garrett wasn't allowed to touch them with his fingers. Presents were opened, the results of which were thoroughly enjoyed (apparently you can't go wrong giving a one-year-old boy
cars), and grandparents were talked to over Skype.
Today...I will watch
Lars and the Real Girl again. We rented it Saturday and watched it that evening. And I fell so in love with the tenderly original story and and great acting that while Garrett naps or while Blake's stays out late to attend meetings at the church, I will curl up on the couch with a leftover chocolate cupcake and let my heart be warmed again. Meanwhile, the rest of the day will be spent following around my now extremely mobile son, cleaning up the messy destruction he leaves in his wake while we dance and sing along with the
Raffi CD he got for his birthday.
Tomorrow...I will take Garrett to the doctor for his 12-month well check-up.
And the day after that...I will do a lot of laundry and a lot of suitcase packing...
Because on the day after that...We're going on vacation. Yippee!!